Monday, August 09, 2010
My mom shared something interesting today.
It started off when i was cleaning up the house. I was picking up n arranging stuff here n there. And while i was doing that, dad came n instructed me to vacuum the floor. I was quite pissed off coz couldnt he see that I WAS doing house work n that of course, vacuuming WOULD be done later on for sure. (I know i was very bad to get pissed off. Sinful I know, Astaghfirullah. But it was kinda sudden reaction)
I whined. I blabbed to my mom abt it. And I was quite surprised that she actually defended me instead. Its like she was on my side saying things like..
tah bapak kau nie.. kn org tgh buat tu.. ni lah orang lelaki, cara fikir tk macam kita pmpan.. bla3.. etc.
THAT, cheered me up n simply made me laugh.
She started to tell me that she heard somewhere that females use both right n left brain together simultaneously. But guys dont, they use it one at a time. I dunno how to true is that but ive just gotta agree that the diff sexes do think differently abt certain things.
And she told me how males responded differently too. She said she observed each of us (her kids) when we were babies. When the first 3 are girls, my mom had alot of suprises attending to my baby brother. She said its just the way we responded when we were babies. An example she gave was breastfeeding time. She once thought that there's something wrong with my brother coz his responses were different. All the more cause she had him when she's over 35.
But now that each of us is normal (alhamdulillah),n plus now she has granddaughter n grandsons, she realized the differences was only because of he's a boy!
LOL right.
One thing for sure, something I personally observe and study, females tend to feel more than males do. Friends told me that males DO feel, only that they dont show. but why? Its pretty frustrating at times. Coz when they dont show, how are we suppose to know that they feel us, understand us?
One of a kind creature made by God. =D
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